Overcome Your Fears and Be YOU!! | Episode 3

About this episode

In this episode, Tonnika Haynes welcomes Ash Kaplan to talk about the realities of shop ownership and building a business with authenticity. Tonnika Haynes shares her journey taking over her family’s automotive shop, highlighting the challenges of stepping into leadership and learning to trust her team. Ash details her path from tinkering as a kid to founding Golden Hour Garage, emphasizing the importance of meaningful connections, empowering shop owners to reclaim their time, and why authenticity is her #1 core value. Timestamps:00:00 Authority, legacy, and what it really means to be in control00:28 Welcome & the power of “downshifting” in business01:22 Meet Tonnika & Ash: Shop owner & efficiency expert introductions02:19 Family, motherhood, and how your “why” changes with time04:20 “Working on, not in the business”—the struggle to delegate06:01 How an industry call led to a friendship—and better business07:16 Generational divides & why standing out matters in shop life11:14 Why Tonnika thought she needed “the old white guy up front” & learning to lead as herself13:04 The moment walking into an industry event changed everything17:33 The story behind “Downshift”—slowing down to level up18:25 Relationships first: Building trust and brand beyond company names21:06 Investing in people: How remote services help reclaim time & sanity24:33 The health scare that became a wake-up call for better business balance27:33 Letting go, trusting the team, and why delegation pays twice29:13 The magic of remote estimating: More customer time, more profit30:58 Selling with empathy, not assumptions—the secret to loyal customers33:40 How serving people first changes everything44:06 Ash’s journey from duct tape diva to shop problem-solver53:00 The grit it takes: Advice for women entering the industry01:04:42 Tonnika turns a struggling shop into a legacy of growth01:16:34 Why shop culture means everything—and how to actually build it01:22:04 Owning your story, embracing authenticity, and letting your “why” shine