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The Limitless Leadership PodcastMay 26, 2026 · 34 min

Ep 153: Redefining Men’s Leadership in the 21st Century with Andrew O'Brien

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In this episode, Josh Parnell and Brett Beitler are joined by Andrew O'Brien, founder of Dad Tribes. Andrew shares his journey from military service to…

Key takeaways

  • —Isolation among men is a significant issue that can be addressed through community building.
  • —Dad Tribes has grown rapidly, emphasizing the need for connection among fathers.
  • —Effective leadership involves creating environments where individuals can grow and support each other.
  • —Solitude is beneficial for personal reflection, while isolation can be detrimental.
  • —Conflict resolution should focus on direct communication rather than public criticism.

Frequently asked

What is Dad Tribes?
Dad Tribes is a community designed to connect fathers and combat feelings of isolation by providing a platform for them to meet and support each other.
How can men benefit from joining Dad Tribes?
Men can find camaraderie, share experiences, and gain support from other fathers facing similar challenges, which can enhance their personal and family lives.
What is the difference between solitude and isolation?
Solitude is a time for personal reflection and growth, while isolation is the feeling of being alone and unsupported. It's important to seek community to combat isolation.
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when you're on the right path, the world just works for you, right? And everything seems to just fall into place. Not that it doesn't come with its challenges and downfalls, just like everything else in life. When I get deep into it, I need to share that with other men who are in that same leadership position in their home, um, to help us combat that struggle together and, and rise up together.

Uh, so we're over here solving the problem of isolation in men. You're listening to the Limitless Leadership Lift Off Podcast, the podcast designed to help automotive repair shops learn how to lead, coach, train, and manage their team better by sharing proven techniques and thought-provoking interviews from industry leaders. Are you ready to transform your leadership skills by tapping into unrecognized potential to achieve limitless results?

Let's get ready for liftoff. It's time to go from great to greater. Here's today's episode. Hello everyone and welcome back to another episode of the Limitless Leadership Podcast. Before we get started, don't forget to like, comment, subscribe, do all the things you need to on social media to help this podcast impact people and build leaders. And speaking of people and speaking of leaders and speaking of impact, Brett and I are joined by an incredible guest today, someone who's making an impact not just in their respective community but in the world., and I'm excited for our audience to get to know who our guest is, what our guest does.

Our guest today is the founder of Dad Tribes. Our guest is our friend Andrew O'Brien. Andrew, thanks for being here, man. Hey, I appreciate both of y'all letting me jump on and, and join this conversation. Well, hey, we're excited to have you. Um, before we get started, Andrew, go ahead and just share with our audience a little bit about what Dad Tribes is, who you are, what you do, and how you do it.

Yeah, so I'm gonna say without trying to sound egotistical, I'm just proud of what we're doing. DADtribes is the fastest growing community of dads in the world. And I don't mean we're the largest yet, but we are the fastest growing. We grew by 1,000% in 2025 and we're growing by 100% week over week right now. Um, and so we're seeing amazing growth.

Everything we do for dads is completely free. We don't charge them anything. We built a mobile app. Where we invite guys to come onto the app. They can use a map to find other dads near them with similar age kids and similar hobbies and interests and reach out, add friends, send direct messages, schedule times to meet up, take the kids to the park together, go fishing together, go hunting together, go play a game of golf together, whatever it is that they care about, they're able to do.

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Isolation in men. I, I'm, I'm glad we're talking about this topic because we live in a day and age when we can get anything and everything right at our fingertips just with a click of a mouse or through our phone, through the screen. Um, but it's amazing how many people are in the world who feel alone. They feel like they're on an island.

They feel alone. They feel isolated. And community is, you know, a, a word that Brett and I have been using, um, quite heavily this year. Um, being able to create a community, not just in our industry, but in, uh, industries alike and, and other folks who are, maybe experiencing the same similar isolation that you, that you've talked about. Andrew, I'll ask you to share what started all of this, what prompted Dad Tribes, and give us a little bit of background about who you are and where you came from that warranted this incredible community that you've been building.

Yeah, so I, you know, right after high school I joined the Army and I was in there for 4 years. My time in service was filled with camaraderie and brotherhood, and it's a connection that you've find very, really hard to replace when you get out, right? It just doesn't exist because when you go from combat situations and life or death situations, you build this relationship with these men that you spend pretty much 24/7 with for, you know, 4 years.

And then you get out and you realize the civilian world doesn't work this way, right? The, the brotherhood, the camaraderie is stripped away from you immediately and it's just gone. And finding friends as a grown adult, especially men, it's hard, right? We aren't naturally social creatures. We don't go and just, you know, hunt for friends all the time. It's normally more challenging for men alone.

But then you add having kids, right? We get stuck as dads in two environments, work and home. And that's where we live in our environments. And the majority of that time is spent at work. And then we spend as much spare time as we have at home because we live in guilt constantly that we're not getting enough time with our wives or our kids.

Um, and so as I was experiencing this getting out of the Army, uh, I, I realized, man, I need brotherhood. I, I need camaraderie. It, it fills the soul in a way, um, that is hard to explain, right? It's not that I don't love my kids. It's not that I don't love my wife. They are the center of my entire world. But I still needed brotherhood.

I needed camaraderie. I needed to be around other men, other testosterone. I need to be around other people going through the same life experiences and life challenges that I'm going through. And I realized hanging out with, you know, single guys with no kids, I didn't have anything to relate over. They just— it's a whole different world from with kids to no kids, right?

Noticing that, I was like, you know, it was in May of 2020, we saw the pandemic coming. Everybody was forced to stay at home. I think dads started to even realize more now how much time they were missing out on because they couldn't leave the house. Uh, and so I started Lone Star Dads. It's just this little Facebook group as a way for dads to hang out and talk to other dads.

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That's T-E-K-T-O-N-I-C, or use the link in the show notes. So, knowing you well, Andrew, for the past couple of years, man, I can also boost this up a little bit more. You're not only just building community, you're building community of strong men, right? You're giving them resources through those dad tribes all across this country and nationwide as a whole to be able to understand what being an effectively present quality-driven man is, right?

Through the resource allocation of all your members. And speaking of members, how many members are you guys up to today? Right now we have 60,000 members, over 60,000 members across the country. We're growing by about 200 to 400 members a day. That's phenomenal, man. And so the impact that you're already making, even if you stop today, your legacy is moving, right? I know you're not going to stop.

I know you guys are going to go after hundreds of thousands, if not millions, when this thing continues to grow. The type of root system that you've been planting, it's something that this world will always need. Just like this world always needs leaders, it always needs strong men to lead in those communities that they set foot into. And you guys are doing a phenomenal job in the very early days at making sure you're really intentional about that.

Thank you. I appreciate that. It's definitely been an experience, right? I mean, when I first started this, I had no idea it would end up where it is today. But when you're on the right path, the world just works for you, right? And everything seems to just fall into place. Not that it doesn't come with its challenges and downfalls, just like everything else in life.

But when you know, when you know you're in your calling, The results prove itself. Josh and I have a saying, God will equip the called. That's right. That's, that's what it is right there. You're being equipped along the way. So are all your dads that are helping you lead, even if they have no idea what they're doing day by day. Sometimes that's, we have, we have to act in faith because we don't know what to do next.

Right. But the rooms that you guys are being called into, you will be equipped to armor up and serve in those environments, even if you've never done it before. Right. And what I love with the community we're building, right, is I'm not here to be a parenting coach. Personally, for me, I don't believe in parenting coaches. I have 6 kids and every kid needs to be parented in a completely different way.

And I still have no idea what I'm doing day to day. So I don't think there's any how-to book that is going to make sense for every child. But what I believe is birds of a feather flock together, right? You surround yourself with good men, with good ambition, good motivation, good core values, and naturally you will fall in line. And, and you will naturally want to become a better man, a better father, a better husband when you surround yourself with better men, better fathers, and better husbands.

I got a question for you, and this is something Josh and I, uh, have encountered sometimes in the industries that we're serving in, in leadership coaching. And training because you're serving 60,000 men. What has it looked like either in the early days or as of recently when you've encountered how lost this world is, lost men are? I mean, is it really eye-opening for you guys?

And number one, and number two, what are you doing to address that? Yeah. So, you know, it's amazing when we did this, the most recent app update added the map. Before that, it was just a place where you could RSVP for events and enter contests, right? So it wasn't very active. The moment we launched the map, it changed everything. It drastically exploded our membership growth and our activity.

And what it did is it showed me just how lonely we all are, right? But men aren't going to go join a local neighborhood Facebook group and say, hey, I'm lonely. Does anybody want to be my friend? That's just not something that we do. Right. But, and a lot of men have become introverted, right? You've got your extroverted guys out there who will go into an event and leave, not, you know, everybody will be their friend by the time they leave.

But a lot of men are like me where I go into a crowded place. I'm the guy in the corner just kind of observing. I never need to be the center of attention or even want to be the center of attention in an area or social environment that is not based on me or what I'm doing. And so I think when we saw that and we saw that map changed everything, it just showed us.

And so the map is how we were able to attack that, that isolation, right? Solitude is important for men. We need that moment to reflect, to become better, to do what we need to do. I would never say that solitude is negative. I believe isolation is negative, right? And that's, that's the, what we're doing to solve that problem is giving them the ability to be around men who, who like the same thing., right?

Because just because we're the same age and have the same kids and age kids and live in the same city doesn't mean we're going to be friends. And so, and as we get older, we're more picky about who we want to be around. Andrew, will you separate the differences between solitude and isolation for our listening audience? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, solitude for me is that the moments where you sit alone in that room and you reflect, right?

It's all about reflection. It's about personal development. It's about thinking about, your wins, your losses, your failures, your successes, and just taking time to reflect on yourself as a human being and see where you need to be better and give yourself an opportunity to pat yourself on the back for what you have accomplished, which I think the majority of people have a hard time with, right?

Especially us ambitious ones where we'll get 2 steps ahead and still feel like we're 20 steps behind, right? And so that solitude gives you that moment of reflection. Isolation is feeling like you have to go and attack the world by yourself and do everything alone. And a lot of men feel this way, right? Because as a father, uh, and this is my belief, I have nothing wrong with the way anyone else believes, but I believe that I am the rock and the leader of my home.

Uh, my wife depends on me, my children depend on me, so my job is to be strong. And when I am struggling, I don't need to burden them with that struggle because my job is to be their rock. But I do not believe that I need to do it alone. What I need to do is surround myself with other men who I can then share my struggle with and can push me and motivate me to become a better man or to solve whatever problem I'm facing.

I just don't believe in burdening my family with that. I want to continue to be that strong leader. My wife knows when I'm stressed. I'm not saying that. I think that's hard to hide, right? But when I get deep into it, I need to share that with other men who are in that same leadership position in their home to help us combat that struggle together and rise up together.

Andrew, that's a powerful concept that you just shared. And Brett and I often talk about how we can go fast alone, but we can go way further together. And what I'm hearing you really be able to provide for other men out there is the opportunity to do something together, to go through something and grow through something together. And I, I love the concept of being strong for your family because you are the rock for your family.

But there's power in vulnerability, and vulnerability is not a weakness. Vulnerability is a strength. Well, we can be vulnerable in our community of men who are going through and growing through the same things that we're going through and growing through. And so being able to have this community like Dad Tribes to, to go further together, it's such a, such an incredible— like, I can understand why you guys are growing the way that you're growing.

And, and earlier we talked about you're not just impacting your respective community, but you're impacting the world. You guys have extended beyond the United States. You're now in, help me out, Australia, correct? Yeah. Yeah. So we're in Australia now. Um, since we've launched the map, we also have people in the UK and Canada and the Netherlands, all over. Excellent. That's, that's powerful, man.

That's so powerful. Uh, well, Andrew, let me ask you this because this is a leadership podcast and what, what you're also doing is you are creating leaders in men with respective leaders in their community. If I were to ask you, what does leadership mean to you? How would you answer that question? You know, leadership for me is, uh, a little bit different than I think a lot of the world views it, right?

So when I look at leadership, my job is not to tell somebody how to be better, what to do to be better. I, I believe a leader shows them the path and gives them the opportunity to become better themselves. Like I said in the beginning, I am not a parenting coach. I will never teach or tell anybody how to parent their children.

I don't believe in that. What I do believe is opening the door to a room where you can be surrounded by others and that same with the same ambition, same core values., and naturally you will become better. I believe a leader's job is to get people in that room where they will naturally be surrounded in an environment where they become better. Iron sharpens iron, right?

Yes. Yep. Uh, you know, we, we, we get better through being in rooms where men are steps ahead of us, and those men remember the days that they were poured into. And they pay, they pay it forward, right? And so when you get in that type of environment where men are really intentional about their growth and they make sure that they're there to help call other men up versus call them out.

And we have a saying, when leaders get better, men, when men get better, uh, the entire organization, the entire world, the entire, your family stands a supreme opportunity to get much, much better along the way as well. Yeah, I believe, you know, there's a difference between a boss and a leader, right? A boss will tell you what to do. A leader will ask you the questions that will get you into the right direction, right?

So I don't want to order people around and tell them what to do. I want to give them the opportunity and ask the right questions where they'll come to the answer themselves. Brett just talked about what we coined the definition of accountability is not being called out, but being called up. And I think this is an opportunity to not only express vulnerability in a community like we talked about, but also being called up to serve, to serve your family, to serve your organization, to serve your community.

For the listening audience who knows that they need to make a change, but they've struggled and they're feeling stuck— a lot of us are feeling stuck in multiple areas of our life And we know that nothing changes if nothing changes, but something has to change and we struggle. How can our audience learn more about DadTribe? What can we do to get connected and what's, what part can we play once we do get connected?

Yeah, you know, the first step is getting on the app, right? That, that's where we start the interaction. But you know, what you'll see is a lot of men will join the app, they'll set their location, but then that's it, right? It's that first step going, going to introduce yourself, finding a guy that has the same hobbies, same interests, and introducing yourselves.

I think what we need to do in our community is to encourage the men in our lives to seek friendship, to seek brotherhood, to seek camaraderie, whether it's on DadTribe or not. I don't care. You know, we're going to build this movement to a billion-person movement. And we're going to continue to grow until we surpass that one day. But it doesn't matter what channel, what, what resource they use to do it.

But we need men in the same rooms having conversations, sharing vulnerably on the struggles and sharing on our wins and supporting each other. I think we live in a world that is so negative towards each other. Oftentimes people will see others succeed and it becomes this jealousy or this envy that leads into hate. I mean, I run Facebook ads every day to expand our reach.

I can tell you that we have plenty of hate that comes on these ads, and I don't respond to them. I don't get angry at these people, but I think we need to change the way that the world interacts with each other. And the only way to do that is for men to be surrounded by other men, for women to be surrounded by other women, and be in an environment where we push each other forward, we raise each other up, Uh, and we encourage each other to, to have those vulnerable conversations.

You know, social media has destroyed our world where we all look like everything is great. Um, and it's not. So download the, the Dad Tribes app. That's the first step. Um, if you're listening, download the Dad Tribes app. If you're a woman, if you're a woman who's listening and you say, hey, you know what, my, my partner or my spouse or my boyfriend or fiancé needs to level up and to be called up, not called out.

Download the DadTribe app for him as well and get plugged in, get connected. This is great, man. I love the vision that you have, Andrew. I love that you're not just stopping at a million, you're not just stopping at a few million, you're stopping at, you're not even stopping, you're saying we're gonna get to a billion, we're gonna keep on going. I love that you are mindful of how, you know, social media can paint a picture and it may not always be entirely accurate.

We've gotten really good as a community, as a society, to disagree and to voice our opinions behind the keyboard and be a keyboard warrior, but that doesn't solve anything. It doesn't help anybody. And what we need to learn how to do is learn how to disagree without being disagreeable and being able to understand each other's perspectives, being able to respect others' opinions What good is it to jump on a, on a, on a comment thread and start throwing shade at the, at DadTribe?

I mean, I'm like, I'm, I'm puzzled by the fact that you guys even get hate based on what you're trying to do, and I'm struggling to understand why anyone would want to do that. Um, but anyway, that's just my long-winded rant that I wanted to share with everybody. Hopefully anyone who's listening, uh, knows that this is an opportunity, um, to, to level up, to, to be called up and to be the best version of yourself for your family, for your children, and for the legacy that you're leading.

Well, you know, and talking about that, so just a quick story is, you know, the other day, so my children all work, right? What we did is when we started building DadTribe, I opened an arcade where we live. I live in a rural area of Arkansas where there's not much for the kids to do. And so there was an old arcade. I bought it and opened it up for free to the public.

I put we call it Rhett's Arcade because it's my son's arcade because he's got that entrepreneurial bug. I wanted to show him that you can make an impact and an income at the same time. You don't have to choose one or the other. And so we did that here. But the other day, so my kids work for a living, right? And I'm talking about my 9-year-old and my, my 12-year-old.

They both work and they work for a local cat rescue, cleaning up kitty litter, and they make money, right? My daughter is 9 years old. She's been doing it for a couple of weeks to save up so she could pay a dog groomer to groom her, her little dog. I don't know what kind of dog it is. It's one of those white fluffy ones.

And so she's my princess, but my, my kids always learn the work ethic and to earn what you get. All right. So she worked for weeks to do it. She went to the dog groomer yesterday. She went and told this dog groomer, here's what I want. The dog groomer responded, I'm either shaving her or you can take her and leave. So I guess, you know, the dog's hair was a bit matted.

It wasn't disgusting, but, you know, it was just a rude way of speaking to my 9-year-old daughter. I wasn't there. Her grandmother was with her when this happened. So this morning, what I did is I took my daughter, I put her in the car, and we drove 30 minutes out to go to this dog groomer's office. Now, they weren't there. We're going to go again tomorrow, but I'm going to go have a conversation in person.

And I'm going to request that this person apologizes to my daughter who worked hard to get that. But what I didn't do is I didn't go on Facebook and blast them. I didn't go on Google and leave a negative review. I didn't sit here and try to destroy someone's business. My job as a father and as a man is to show my daughter what to expect from the men in her life, right?

What she needs to expect is to be protected and to be stood up for. And she also needs to learn that there's a possible, uh, opportunity for conflict resolution that doesn't involve being hateful online and trying to destroy someone's livelihood. Right? Even if this woman doesn't end up apologizing to my daughter, it's a learning lesson. But my daughter saw me stand up for her.

She saw me do conflict resolution and she saw I didn't go online and try to destroy someone's entire life because they made a mistake. Before we move on, let me make sure I honor this. Andrew, I know you don't need to be propped up, but gentlemen listening, this is parenthood. This is what fatherhood is. Sitting behind a keyboard like Josh talked about, being a little warrior on blasting somebody online.

We operate small businesses. The majority of us do in this, in this country and 5 0 to 1 star reviews can kill a business for months on end when people are looking at that business and will decide on a yes or no based on reviews. So Andrew, what you were doing is going to impact your kids for a very, very long time in the future, if not their entire life, by putting these moments into, into action and showing them what leadership, integrity, and old school type foundational rules look like.

This is what the world needs, more of this. So man, kudos to you. I know you don't need to be propped up, but I wanted to honor what you just said because it's, uh, it's big and it's needed. Andrew, I'm gonna, I'm gonna piggyback on that because what you also did is you, you're showing your daughter what it's like to, to take time and make time, even when it feels like you don't have any.

Because a lot of people say, what, man, I, I don't have time. I don't have time for this or that. I don't, I don't have time for things. We, we all struggle. With time. We don't feel like we have enough time, but we're all given the same amount of time in any given day, and we can choose to make time for the things that matter.

And what matters is that your daughter sees an example of what a leader is, because that— because what you're doing is you're showing her what a leader really does, which is take action. You're not taking shortcuts. You're making time. You're putting forth time, effort, and energy to do the right thing and to and to communicate the right way. And, and it, you know, could it be a difficult conversation?

It could be, but I have a feeling that the way you're going to be approaching it professionally and respectfully, it's going to turn into a good resolution. I'm just going to assume for the best, and I assume that it's going to turn into a good resolution because you're making time and you're showing your daughter and you're showing that business owner an opportunity as well.

Like, this is a lesson learned for everyone involved, and you're not choosing to take a shortcut and get behind the keyboard and, and put them on blast. You're gonna— you're making time for something that's really important that I would assume that your daughter's not going to forget. Thank you. Yeah, I mean, I think it's easy to go and put your camera on and start yelling and, and try to trap someone into saying something negative so you can go put the video and, and get your views and go viral and all that.

What I'm trying to do is, with my children, is to make sure they don't become part of that problem, right? And become part of the solution. So good. Well, hey, speaking of videos, if you're listening to this podcast but you want to see this epic beard on Andrew's face, uh, hey, you gotta, you gotta watch it. You can go to YouTube at The Bearded Leader and you can watch this episode along with plenty others from the Limitless Leadership Podcast.

One of the questions I ask every guest on the podcast, Andrew, is what is the best advice you've ever received from a coach or a mentor? So I'm trying to remember the saying of it. You'll attract, what is it? Something with bees and flies, but there's a, it's, yeah. Yeah. So the way I see it is everything that you built, especially when you start succeeding, you are going to attract the hate and you're going to attract negativity, no matter how positive of a movement you're trying to build.

We get it daily. And what you have to learn to do is to build that shell around yourself. My job is not to try and convince someone who hates Dad Tribes the moment they hear about it to love us. Because I don't care. That is not the audience I'm trying to serve. That is not the man that I'm trying to attract into the movement that we're building.

And my job isn't to parent them. My job isn't to father a grown man into becoming a better man. If he is okay with where he is, maybe one day he'll see the light and solve whatever problem he's having in his life. But we don't spend our time— on my ads, I don't even reply to the comments. Let everybody comment and say everything negative that they want to say.

My job is not to combat that. My job is for the men that do join my movement and do come into my community to make sure they feel welcome, to make sure they have the opportunities that they need to, to connect and find friends. And their life. And I think it's a lot easier said than done. It's taken me years to learn to build that tough exterior shell.

And only allow the people past that shell that deserve to be past that shell. I love it. I think the saying is something along the lines of bees don't waste time trying to convince flies why honey is better than bleep. Yeah, that's it. And the whole point is like, you're not going to be loved by everyone. Some people are not going to see the vision that Brett and I both see in you and DadTribe, and that's okay.

Um, there's, there is a place for everyone, and unfortunately DadTribe may not be that place for that someone, but they, they gotta place somewhere. Um, so I, I, I think that's, that's pretty powerful. Uh, pretty powerful closing statements. Um, Brett, anything you had you, you wanna share? Yeah. The final piece, I mean, this is something you and I are, are starting to recognize and understand.

You're not gonna be going through fierce storms unless you are called for something great. Right? So people are going to continue to hate as you guys continue to build momentum. And I pray, Andrew, that those haters keep fueling you to do more, right? Because the haterade is always going to be real. And when the haterade continues to stay in force, there's a way for us to be able to propel that into positive energy that will continue to fuel and fire up your impact in a much greater way, right?

So you can counteract that with, if you're, if you're like worried about what I'm doing right now, wait till next year, right? Like, because I'm coming swinging next year, right? Right. Yep. Well, and consider that, you know, it's often that you're not going to meet a hater who's doing better than you. Yeah. I mean, that typically the haters are the ones who are looking up.

So just keep that and keep that in mind. Well, hey, speaking of looking up, uh, Andrew, Brett and I both look up to you and what you're doing, man. Incredibly honored, um, that you're on the show, uh, humbled that you're here, and really respect you immensely in what you're doing, what you're building. We believe in it, um, we want to help any way that we can, and, uh, we certainly support the vision that you are casting.

And, um, can't wait to see this thing blast past a million, blast past a billion, and say, hey, remember when When we were watching you grow this thing from the early years and look at it now, I mean, it's pretty incredible what you're doing. So kudos to you for everything you're doing. Kudos to both of you for the leadership path that you're on and the impact that you're trying to make.

And I look forward to the day that I can come out to one of your events and meet you both in person. I've met Brett. I haven't met Josh. Um, but I look forward to attending one of your events so I can, I can meet you and see the impact you're making. In person. Awesome. We look forward to it as well, my friend.

Um, well, hey, thanks for being here and thanks for listening. For those of you who are listening or watching this episode, thanks again for tuning into another episode of the Limitless Leadership Podcast. As you know, we look to transform our leadership skills by tapping into unrecognized potential to achieve limitless results. So thanks again, everyone. Have a great day. Don't forget to smile today.

Tell your loved ones how much they mean to you. I'm Josh Parnell reminding you to keep leading well.

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You know, you didn't ask for the appointment. You were, you know, pricing over the phone. You said 'no'." No comes out in a lot of ways, doesn't it, Tanika? Where- Tonnika Haynes: Oh, yeah ... we, David Boyes: we might be telling somebody, uh, "You know, I'm really busy right", or, or, or "W- we, we're really busy right now, I can't get you in until Friday." Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. David Boyes: That's, that's, we might as well just say, "No, I can't help you." Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. You, that's, that's all they heard was the no. Um, even if you give... And, uh, everybody knows that I'm, I'm big on nos. Like, I can give you a no where there's some healthy nos, but then there's some nos and you have the customer saying, "Hey, um, m- my brakes are making the noise and it just started." And he's like, "Oh, no, I can't see you till Friday." He's like, "Yeah, but I'm gonna die before Friday. I wanna see somebody now." Um, so you don't, you have to learn how to coach them and say, "Yes, so bring that in. Let's take a look at what you've got, and then we'll come up with a plan." You didn't promise that it was gonna be today or tomorrow, but you said, "Bring it in. I'm worried about your safety. Let's see what you've got." Yeah. "Let's see if you should really be concerned about that check engine light. It might be a EVAP code." They don't know that, "But go ahead and bring them in." So and then you, like you said, the cadence in it. This, I'm not gonna make you any promises over the phone, and I would literally say that. "Hey, I don't wanna disappoint you by making a promise that I can't keep. So don't- Yeah ... don't make me, don't put me in that hole. But I need you to go ahead and bring that in to me as soon as you can. Um, and let's scan it. Let's see what you've got, and let's see if you should really be worried, if you can make that trip or we need to bring you in right away. We will help you come up with a plan." So just that solid no. "No, I'll see you Friday." Jimmy Lea: He, " Tonnika Haynes: Meh. No you won't." Yeah. Like, so that's support. That's Jimmy Lea: my- David Boyes: It, it becomes very collaborative in what you just said. Hey, let, let's make this about you, let's make this about your safety and your confidence to drive that vehicle. Maybe you gotta get across town and your commute is 30 minutes. Let's make sure that your vehicle is safe, and then once you're here and we make sure you're safe, let's talk about, uh, when we're gonna have that on the schedule. We'll get that vehicle in Tonnika Haynes: and prepared. Yeah. What are the next steps? Yeah. So let's go ahead and get- let's get your nerves calm- Mm-hmm ... and then let's come up with the next step. Let's come up with a plan. Us, us, us, we, we, we. So Jimmy Lea: yeah. Yeah. Oh, I love it. I love it. And, uh, you talk about s- building a solid foundation for this, the solid foundation for their skills so that the, the ongoing training you're doing really builds on that foundation. Uh, we've got a three-day service advisor with the institute. We're gonna give a shout-out to the institute here right now. So everybody grab out your smartphones, scan the QR code if your service advisor needs a solid foundation. Thank you, David. If you need a solid foundation- Registered now ... and you need to start with... Yeah, get registered. I know you've been to a couple of these, David, 'cause- I have you've talked about all the skills here just really, really well. If your service advisor needs that and you need to go from zero to hero very quickly, this is an intensive that you wanna send your service advisor to, and it will be at headquarters in Ogden, Utah. Fly right into Salt Lake, and, uh, and we got you set up there in Ogden. So, yes, David Boyes: scan that. It's a beautiful drive up from the airport. This class is, uh, it, it, it will help establish the, the fundamentals to build on. Yeah. So you come here, it's, you know, it's boot camp, right? We're, we're going to make sure that we're establishing the expectation and give you something to build on as the owner. Send your service advisors in here. Uh, they'll get those fundamentals, and then you'll have, you know, these, these mechanisms, uh, to improve them over time. I promise you it'll be a, a real game changer for your frontline. Tonnika Haynes: Well, you know what? Beautiful. I wanna piggyback on that. Um, and I wasn't coached to saying this. If they've already been, send them again. Jimmy Lea: There you go. Mm. Tonnika Haynes: Send them again, because here's the thing that I know, and I'm just gonna make it simple. I want you to think about your favorite movie. Like when, when I was in the 20s, for me it was Friday, the movie Friday. And then we watched that movie every Friday after work with the crew that I worked with, and it was just the most ignorant movie and the best movie for my generation. Each time I watched that movie, I would see a different thing. So I want you to think about your favorite movie and, or v- your favorite comedy. Each time you'd watch it, you would pick up something else. So it was like, "Oh, I didn't see that that last time." So even when it comes to training, "Hey, I did this three-day class and I did it a year ago. I grew." Jimmy Lea: Do it again. Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: Do it again. Do it again. You, you're never too mu- uh, there's never too much coaching. So just do it again and you'll see it from a different angle. I just wanted to say that. Yeah, 'cause, um, there's been some classes that I, I take, and not just this one, but other classes, like, let me take that class again. Yeah. And you're like, "Aha. I didn't remember that from last time." Yeah. I didn't implement that from last time, 'cause we, you guys tell us, and coaches will tell you, "Just go and implement one thing. One thing." I mean, watch those changes, and then the next time you take the class, let's do one more thing, maybe two, and get, get a little bit better. Right. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. So speaking of training, ASTA, A-S-T-A, is coming up here real soon, Taneka. Real Tonnika Haynes: soon. We're less than 30 Jimmy Lea: days out. Let's give them a shout-out. Tonnika Haynes: Shout out to ASTA. Those are the people, not the people that made me, but it's my just one, my just one thing that I took away from there each time has helped build me to where I am. And I am, I cannot say I would not be where I was without them. But I would not be where I was, where I am without them. From those, those people that I met, the village that I met, meeting you, meeting my first coach, just meeting my, my industry brothers and sisters that I can call on at any time when I'm about to flip out, or when I have a win. 'Cause you know as owners and when, when you're a little higher, you can't share your wins with everybody without some jealousy. True. Yeah. So when you have a win and you have that community to call on. Mm-hmm. So yeah, ASTA is the place to be, September 24th to 26th, right here in Raleigh, North Carolina. So I hope somebody shows up. And, uh, I wanna meet some... Well, I know Jim. I'll be there. Jimmy will be there. You will not miss him. David Boyes: He'll have the jacket. Tonnika Haynes: He will have plenty of jackets on. It is a fun atmosphere, lots of community, lots of learning and growing. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. Yeah. We're gonna have a jacket war, so anybody who wants to play. David, you're bringing your jacket, so David Boyes: who wore Jimmy Lea: it best? Yes. Yeah. David Boyes: Yeah. I, I wanted to make sure that we were gonna f- uh, be able to carve out some time to do the who wore it best. Tonnika Haynes: Oh, David Boyes: always. I think, so B- Benji will be involved. Brett will probably be involved, right? Mm-hmm. And, uh, you, you two- Mike Allen ... Mike, okay, Mike, yep. Tonnika Haynes: I, I, I feel like we should have a girls version of this, 'cause you know, if the women got involved- Jimmy Lea: We always lose Tonnika Haynes: I mean, we would just throw you guys under the bus. Jimmy Lea: It's true. We tried that, Tanika, and you swept it. Yeah. You swept it. There, there was no- Tonnika Haynes: I don't wanna do that to you guys ... competing with Jimmy Lea: Tanika. Tonnika Haynes: I don't wanna do... Yeah, I don't wanna do that to you, so we'll, we'll figure it out. Maybe I'll make a f- couple phone calls and text messages and see what's up. David Boyes: Yeah. Speaking of phone calls. Speaking of phone calls. Tonnika Haynes: Throw that back in. David Boyes: I have a question for you. Yeah. Yeah. That's, hey, I couldn't have asked for a better softball there, but that's great. Um- ... thinking, thinking about the coaching process, you know, I, I, I had mentioned before it can seem a little uncomfortable, even as an owner. You know, listen to two calls, because that first one, you're gonna be so- Mm-hmm ... consumed by how weird I sound on the phone, right? So, but when you, when you started this with your team, what, how was it received? What were some of the, the challenges, uh, do, you know, h- what feedback did you get about listening to calls and going through the analysis? Tonnika Haynes: So I wanna say that when I first did it in, in coaching, so in a group setting, and you're listening to your team, so they call in, they have to do a call and they'll record a call. And so it's like, "Oh, well this time she did this, and this is the excuse." You wanna come up with excuses. You wanna defend- Right yourself. I wanna defend my shop. And so that service advisor's gonna wanna defend him or herself. Like, "Oh, well, you know, that customer and this was that." I was like, "No." So you get past that, and it's like, okay, like I said, you give the sandwich. Okay, so this is a great call. You tell me what you could have done, could have done better in this call. Right. 'Cause I don't wanna be in... 'Cause if you go into attack mode and say, "Oh, you should do this better, and you didn't follow the script, and you, you, you, you, you," you're gonna get somebody that's gonna put up a guard and be like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa. I did my best." So I'll say, "I know you did your best on this, this one call, and you did a great job on this call. What happened, brother?" Balls in your court. Tell me how you can improve on this. Mm. What do you need from me to help you improve here? Was there a distraction? What was, what was the problem? So I kinda feel like I can teach them to self-coach. Jimmy Lea: Yep. Tonnika Haynes: I'm, I'ma give you a whole toolbox. You've got this toolbox. You know what a good call to- sounds like. Like, you also have a mirror. There's a mirror right there. Look at yourself. You've got reminders. I've got sticky note reminders on each, each person saying, "Don't forget to ask for the sale." What happened? "Oh, man, I was distracted, I sh- I should've..." Yep, you should've put the mouse down. You should've put the mouse down. So usually people will first get defensive, same. Mm-hmm. Um, then the defense mechanism starts to come down. Say, "All right, okay, so how do we fix this so next time I cannot find a bad phone call?" Jimmy Lea: Bingo. David Boyes: Yeah. Jimmy Lea: I love it. It, yeah. I love that you have a mirror there and you have sticky notes there helping as well, Taneka. Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. That's, that's so good. ' Tonnika Haynes: Cause we forget. And- And it's okay- Oh, we do ... 'cause we get busy. But the Jimmy Lea: more Tonnika Haynes: we work on it- And I, Jimmy Lea: I, you... I'm certain that you guys have heard this before, that a fake smile is better than a real frown. Tonnika Haynes: Yes. David Boyes: Yep. Tonnika Haynes: Yes. And I'm really good at that. And so I've learned that because I've been doing it a very long time, so people know that I can really make you... I could, like, really fuss you out, and I would sound so sweet 'cause I'm smiling at you the whole time. "Well, you know what, Jamie? I think that was the stupidest thing you've ever said." Jimmy Lea: And if you do it with a smile, you can Tonnika Haynes: get away with it. And you're doing it with a smile and, and when you're shaking your head. So that smile makes a difference. And when I'm- It does ... picking up the phone out of an emergency, if they are busy up front and I'll see that phone ringing, and I pick it up and I'm not ready personally, I'm not ready to answer that phone, and it's a client that knows me, and I'm not smiling, I will get a, "Hey, Taneka, what's wrong?" You Jimmy Lea: okay? 'Cause Tonnika Haynes: they, "You okay?" And I'll say, "Oh, I'm sorry. I was distracted." 'Cause that's usually what happens, you're distracted, or that service, that, um, technician just rubbed you the wrong way or something's happened at home. So but once you put that smile on- You just fake it till you make it. And now you, I usually don't like to say that, but sometimes you do have to fake it till you make it. Like, yeah, absolutely. And use those words of, those positive words. Absolutely. Let's look into that for you. Yeah. Yeah. Jimmy Lea: Sure. I love it. Love it. We talk about the phone call and how much it's worth. Uh, Bimmer PhD Motorsports is saying, "Can we dig into that a little bit?" How much does it cost to get that phone to ring? How much does it cost to acquire a new customer? You talk about the mindset and you talk about the service advisor- Mm-hmm ... and the smile that's needed to be there, fake or real. How much is that phone call worth, Tanika? Have you analyzed any of that in your shop? Tonnika Haynes: So that was actually a, um, something we did in the 20 group with my coach Jen. We went through that and we calculated how much it costs to sh- get that phone to ring. And I really wish I was prepared and I had that number for you. But once you realize that number, share it with your team. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: And then, uh, the institute probably has, um, a blueprint on how to figure that out. So you're looking at how much your website is, your Go- Google ads, any form of marketing that you have out there, down to the phone bill. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: How much does it cost to make that phone ring? And once you see it as the owner, you're gonna be like, "Whoa." And you share that with the team. Like, every time that phone rings, it costs me this. And then also think about your ARO. Jimmy Lea: Mm-hmm. Bingo. Tonnika Haynes: And every time- Yep, yep ... we do not get a y- yes, and we don't get that client through the door, we lost $850. Potential $850, potential $1,100. Jimmy Lea: Yep. Tonnika Haynes: So once we start thinking about, you know, everything, everything's not about money. It is That Jimmy Lea: we keep score. Tonnika Haynes: It is how we keep score. Yeah. Like, you know, we, we talk about we've got the metrics on the dashboard. Numbers don't lie. People do. Your emotions will. David Boyes: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: It costs me $75 every time that phone rings. Mm-hmm. And when you ring it, and when you land that deal, that's a potential 850, or whatever your ARO is, or whatever- Yeah ... that's what it is. And that's, and how long does it take to get that one client to get through the door? Yeah. And also think about how long you can hold onto them as a client. How many years Jimmy Lea: are you gonna- Tonnika Haynes: What's the lifetime value of the client? What's the lifetime of that client? Jimmy Lea: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: So that smile when you answer the phone, yeah, that's worth a lot of money. Jimmy Lea: Tens of thousands of dollars. Tonnika Haynes: Tens of thousands. So go ahead and put your Vaseline on your teeth- Jimmy Lea: Mm-hmm ... Tonnika Haynes: and, and start a- smiling. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. That's an old theater trick. Yes. Are you a, are you a musical theater person? Tonnika Haynes: No, but I just know about- Where are you pulling that from? ... Vaseline on your teeth and, 'cause you get tired of smiling. You, you know, at the conference, you have this whole muscle thing. You're like... Jimmy Lea: Uh, yeah. Tonnika Haynes: Keep s- keep, just keep smiling, smiling, smiling. Jimmy Lea: That's right, David Boyes: Dorothy. Those are important numbers, uh, to know how much does it cost to get that phone to ring. Tonnika Haynes: Mm-hmm. David Boyes: Uh, in some cases it can be, uh, you know, several hundred dollars depending on really all of those factors around generating those phone calls, and then what that ties into when the phone does ring, um, and we don't ask for the appointment. Has that $850 or $1,100 just walked over to my competitor across town? Yeah. But it also sets the stage when we're talking about coaching and development to bring it back to what's in it for me. As a service advisor, you know, most high performing shops are incentivizing their advisors on these, you know, these GP numbers and, you know, there might be other metrics on Google reviews, maybe have spiffs for these different things. It all requires us to generate the appointments and get those vehicles in so that we can have an inspection and we can, you know, generate the, the estimate and ultimately have a sale, and then make this an amazing experience for the customer so they're gonna come back next time. Tonnika Haynes: Mm-hmm. David Boyes: Uh, at the very front end of the phone call, you know, it, it takes X number of dollars to make the phone ring. When that phone rings, the customer, if they're a first time caller- Uh, they're likely y- we as, as a business are likely setting the stage within that first 15 to 20 seconds for the length of our relationship. So based on those initial interactions, we're going to begin setting the stage of how well this customer visit is going to go, uh, how much that we're developing trust with this customer. Do they trust me as an advisor? Do they trust this business, that we're experts and we're gonna help them, and we're gonna do so in a, in a fair and meaningful way? And then also, uh, we're going to set that basis for a repeat customer. Jimmy Lea: Mm-hmm. David Boyes: So that, that's where we get into the, the longevity of our relationship. Interestingly enough, so much of this happens at the very first moments of that very first phone call. And when we acknowledge that as a service advisor, I'm like, "Oh, that does tie back to the paycheck I get." As a business owner, "Wow, that ties back into the stickiness of my customers." I love, you know, repeat customers. I love repeat business. So we wanna drive these skills up front. Uh, Taneka, you talked about, you know, sitting down and going through, um, some of these calls and the, the service advisor reaction. Have you really developed and, you know, share your expectations on how you'd like the, the phone answered? I'm not asking about a script. Tonnika Haynes: Mm-hmm. David Boyes: But like that flow, right? We don't wanna create robots. Right. What have you done at, when you, you know, train and develop your team on here's what I would like to hear from you? Tonnika Haynes: So I haven't honed that in 100%, but I, I do know that we wanna thank them for calling. David Boyes: Mm-hmm. Tonnika Haynes: We wanna know how did you find out about us? Great. Is this your first time calling? How'd you hear about us? So, so we can track that, right? Yeah. Was it a repeat? Was it a neighbor? Was it a Google? How did you... Was it a postcard? How did you hear about me? Um, what can I help you with, and how soon can I get to it? Can you bring that in today or tomorrow? And, um, and smile. So I have these little things that I want them to say that's on the side- Yeah ... of their computer, and I don't want you to sit there and read and just say, "Oh, well, yes, sir, how can I help you today?" I want it to flow naturally because that's who we are as a shop. We- we're not a scripted shop. We're, we're a bunch of goofy people, actually. People. We just happen to fix cars. Um, and that's who we are. Yeah. And I want that to come through. I want you to be friendly. I want you to re- when they come in with the cat or the dog or whatever, please not a cat, but the dog. I want you to put in the notes, this is, this is that customer's name and this is what their dog's name. If they refer to their, their car, "My car's name is Pearline." If you called my car by his name, I'm not taking it nowhere else So I want you to build that relationship. And so I don't have a script and I don't have a formula yet, and maybe I should work on that. And, um, we do have like a SOP. Yeah. Probably should do a better job at that. But then what you just said made me raise my eyebrow, like, I should do better with that. But we do have some things that I'm, that are non-negotiables. David Boyes: You've got your flow there, which is great. Mm-hmm. And I think you're, you're doing better in that than, than- Yeah ... uh, some owners that, that we talk with. I encourage, I encourage everybody to have a flow, right? Yeah. We, we wanna kind of go through the conversation. I'll tell you the number one, um, deficit that I hear within the first probably 10 seconds of a phone call is asking for the customer name, right? So- Right ... "Thank you for calling ABC Automotive. How may I help you? Um, yeah, I can help you with that. My name's David. What's your name?" Jimmy Lea: Mm. David Boyes: It's so simple. Yeah. And, uh, I listen to call after call after call. I mean, these, they, they pop out because of our AI call analysis, but where we go through this whole process and we've had a 90-second call or a two-minute-long phone call, and at no point ask the customer name. Tonnika Haynes: Right. And then you assume that the name on a caller ID is their name. David Boyes: Mm-hmm. Right. Tonnika Haynes: That, that's a problem, too. I know that we were doing... I was doing it as well. Yeah. I would do it as well. David Boyes: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: But, um, and, and with that, I had a little challenge saying, "Hey, I want to see you guys' name on the, the review." Yeah. And it really bothers me when a client calls to check on their car, and I have to, have to answer the phone, "Hey, who was your service advisor?" "Uh, I don't know." What? David Boyes: Mm. Tonnika Haynes: They need to know your name. David Boyes: Mm. Tonnika Haynes: So I had to make sure that everybody had their own business cards when the car was dropped off. "Hey, my name is Stuart. This is who you should call to check on your car. Everybody here can help you, but I'm the main person." So I think a lot of people just don't do that, and say, "Hey, well, my name's Tanika. Who am I speaking with?" Great. "Have you been here with us before?" David Boyes: Mm-hmm. Tonnika Haynes: You know, if it doesn't pop up on the caller ID, "Have you been here with us before?" Yeah. But the caller ID pop up, that's a game changer. Am I skipping ahead? Should we not go that far yet? David Boyes: No, you're fine. Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: Thank you, David. Yeah, just be ready. Yeah, be ready when, when David Voigts calls Brown's Automotive, and you call and say, "Brown's Automotive. This is Tanika. Hey, David, how can I help you today?" What is that? What are you doing? You knew I was calling. You know, like- Yeah ... yeah, caller ID exists. People forget about that. David Boyes: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: But- They do. They do. But it, it's just extra special. Yeah. And that's what the caller ID... I know one thing I do when the customer's walking in, and if I know I have a blue Toyota Coro- Corolla coming in at 9:00. "Who is this coming in?" Yeah. "Hey, Mrs. Such-and-such. Good morning. Oh, hey." Instead of saying, "Can I help you?" Yes, you can help me. That's why I walked through the door. David Boyes: Mm-hmm. " Tonnika Haynes: Hey, M- hey, Mary David Boyes: Jane." Or, "Hang on a second. I'll be with you in a second." Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. No. David Boyes: Don't do that. Tonnika Haynes: Don't do that. David Boyes: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: So, um, there's a lot to be said about customer service, and there's a lot to be said about s- calling people by their name. Jimmy Lea: Amen. Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. David Boyes: It creates familiarity. Yes. And, uh, when, when we have familiarity, we have a relationship. Mm-hmm. It's in- it's potentially implied. But people love to do business with, with the, the folks that they have a relationship with. Mm-hmm. And they're inclined... You know, this is the fun thing about consumer behavior and human behavior, is when I have a great experience, I wanna rally my friends around that too. I want to include them in the joy that I get to experience when I come see Tanika and her team. Yeah. So I'm gonna- I, I'm gonna be much more likely to tell folks about it. If I have a meh- Meh ... average experience, it's probably not gonna come up in conversation. I'm not gonna stick my neck out there. But, um, how do we do that? Well, we address people by their name. We know when they're calling, right? I might even be pulling that up in my shop management system or my CRM. Just the s- the second the phone rings, it's gonna pop and present that information. "Yeah, I saw you were in three, three months ago, and we had looked at, you know, X, Y, Z on your vehicle. Should we add, add some additional time to take care of that this time?" Right? It, we have an awareness. They have confidence in us. We know them as a person. We know their vehicles. And now we're, we're joining together with our customers. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Uh, at, at a common goal, right? And it comes back to their safety. Well, Tonnika Haynes: so what'll happen is you'll get a client, and, um... Sorry about the background noise. That's all right. You'll get a client, and they're not thinking about their car. They, they, they've grown to love you. They've grown to know you. They know you by your name. And then you made the recommendations last time. They trust you enough that they are just gonna be like, "Okay, whatever. I'll talk to you about it next time. Tanika's gonna remember that for me." Say, "Hey, Miss Mary Jane, you remember we talked about..." "I don't remember we talking about." "Well, here's a copy. I'm gonna send that over to you. We're gonna look at it, these things again." Yeah. It's just like having a whole system, and then you become that person. It's like I don't have to remember what my car needs 'cause Tanika and her team have the history, and they know me by my name. David Boyes: Mm-hmm. Tonnika Haynes: Right. And they're gonna take care of me. David Boyes: The paradigm shift there is I, you know, as a service advisor, I'm the expert. Tonnika Haynes: Mm-hmm. David Boyes: As the service manager, I'm the expert, right? You've come to me because of our and my expertise, and I'm sharing the belief that you wanna be safe and you wanna care for your vehicle. So allow me to make these recommendations. Allow me to, to keep that, those notes about our previous interactions so that when we meet to, when we meet again, we can make sure that w- you know, we're, we're not starting from zero- Tonnika Haynes: Mm-hmm David Boyes: that we already have this information available, and we're going to improve that experience. Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. David Boyes: Um, on the, on the call coaching side of it, um, you know, I, I think at some level you've kinda normalized it in your shop, and I'd love to learn more about how, you know, how did you do that? It's, it's not typical, I would say, that people are just, like, rallying around, "Let's listen to calls," right? 'Cause part of it is, you know, the exposure or this kind of fear of judgment. But once you normalize that and make it consistent, um, I'd love to know how you've done that and, and keep the, uh, the Big Brother mentality out the door. Tonnika Haynes: Well, I don't, well, we've got cameras, and we've got these things recording the calls. And, and first of all, these calls are not being recorded to get you. These calls are recor- Yeah ... recorded to cover your butts from that crazy person that swear they didn't say it. Mm-hmm. These calls are recorded to make you better. Um, I remember Chad say, "Hey, just put it on the calendar. Just put it on the calendar." It's like ha- having that one-on-one for the first time. Nobody knows what to say or to do. I'm not trying to attack you. I'm just trying to make you better. So let's just... I listened to my call. Be vulnerable. Me. Hey, Jimmy Lea: Yeah ... Tonnika Haynes: you don't wanna listen to your call. I didn't wanna listen to my own call. But let's, let's do this. It's just on the calendar. And like I said, the defense will just break down a little bit at a time, and I found that with my one-on-ones again. Like, we do a first Monday one-on-one. If I was late or if I skipped the one-on-one, they're like, "Well, why did, I didn't get my one-on-one. Am I in trouble?" They look forward to it. Everybody wants positive reinforcement. Amen. So if you keep it positive, and then some- like, "Hey, I looked at 10 of your calls, and out of the 10, only 3 of them were coachable." Or, "Hey, you remember when we started out, how you would have, like, a 11 bad calls out of 20? Dude, you only got two this time." So make sure we measure it, okay? Schedule it, measure it, keep it going. Know you're uncomfortable, they're uncomfortable, and just say- I don't wanna do this. Nobody wants to do it. Nobody wants to lift that... Well, a lot of people don't wanna lift the heaviest weight for the muscle gain. Mm-hmm. It's gonna be painful, but it's gonna get easier. It's gonna be easier for me and you as the coach and the coachee, or is it a coachee? Whatever. So, I mean, it, it's... I don't know if there's an easy way to put it, but I just know that you just keep doing it, you be consistent, and you let them know if you're uncomfortable. Like I hear shop owners say, "How do you start this one-on-one stuff? How do you start this coaching stuff?" You just start it. And you're just like, "Ooh, hey, I don't know what I'm doing either. Let's do this together." Yeah. "Let's, let's get better together." Like, I'm listening to my calls too. We're all getting better together. So I would just say start it, put it on a schedule, make it, make it pop up, show up. Yeah. Wednesday, coaching calls. Jimmy, one of the- Schedule it. It's ready to go. David Boyes: Yeah. That, that's perfect. I, I, I love the perspective too. And Jimmy, one of the, you know, the things that I share with owners consistently is be consistent. Mm-hmm. So I think the, the technology drives that, right? We're delivering an email with, you know, here, here's a, a top call, here's a coachable call. Here's some additional information. So delivering that is important, and the technology really helps us drive that consistency in this case. So, um, when that, that email comes out, here's a call example, you don't have to do anything with that today, or you can. If you don't, there's another one tomorrow, right? Mm-hmm. And we wanna create that normalcy. And th- this is the part that drives change, is one, you know, we're, we're making this normal. Yep. And Tanika, you were just talking about that, right? We're gonna put this on the calendar. People begin to expect it, right? It becomes normal for them, and that's a super important milestone in the coaching, training, and development process, is that sense of normalcy in the shop. And then, um, u- understanding the expectations and, you know, where do we have the opportunities. Um, Tanika, you know, one, one thought that comes to mind here is, you know, you'd mentioned at the beginning, like ask for the appointment. As you began doing this, you know, what, what did you begin to understand and, and see happening across, you know, the phone calls and across your organization? What patterns began to emerge? And really, what's that aha moment you had where you're like, "This is bringing value to me while I'm bringing value to my team"? Tonnika Haynes: Ooh, that's a good question. So when we start asking for the appointment, you know what? The calendar filled up. David Boyes: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. So the marketing was working. And, um, but the big aha moment... Ooh, that's a good question, Dave. You got me on that one. Should have text me that before you asked me that one. I'd been ready. David Boyes: My Tonnika Haynes: apologies. Phone with you. Aha moments with phone calls. I don't know. I, I really, I can't answer that one for you, but what I do wanna say before I forget the chance, don't get the chance to say it, when they're sitting beside each other up front and they're lis- 'cause they're, everybody can hear everybody's phone calls. Mm-hmm. I can hear them say, "That was a good one. What was that one about?" Or like Stuart would tell Hailey, he's like, "She's, she's had a lot of good phone calls here lately. I can hear the change in the way she's handling the phone calls." So again, um, may have got a little bit off subject, but them helping each other and encouraging each other. Maybe they can only hear one end of the phone call, but there's some key words like, "Oh, you killed that one." Jimmy Lea: Yeah. " Tonnika Haynes: You killed that one." Or making that sale on the phone call. Yeah. "I heard how you delivered that BVI. I heard that delivery. You gave them the good sandwich," and they said yes. Like this morning, she was like, "She said yes to everything." It's like, "God, it's working." Imagine that. Love it. Imagine doing a training, following the instructions, and it actually working. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. Gotta David Boyes: love that. It really is the aha moment too, right? Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. David Boyes: You're, you're going through, you're driving consistency. You have, you know, some form of flow and expectations, and you're learning from one another. I love the fact that- Mm-hmm ... they're listening at least to one side of each other's conversations- Right ... in real time. Tonnika Haynes: I David Boyes: think I'm lucky Tonnika Haynes: with that- And then getting to populate from that ... with my team. David Boyes: Yeah. Tonnika Haynes: I think I'm lucky with my, 'cause they're, they're not in competition, and, um, it's like how do you keep them... I don't know. God blessed me with that, but I'm just lucky that way. But encouraging each other- So. Jimmy Lea: It's good. That's good, Tanika. You, you've set up a solid culture there, solid people. They've got great results. You're listening to the phone calls. Consistency, like David's talking about. You know, um, hearing one side of the conversation helps a little bit, but if you, if you, as an owner, if you're only listening to half the conversation and you are not booked up three, four, five, six, seven, eight days in advance, chances are you're missing the other half of the conversation, and you need to listen to it. So you do need a device, a program, a, a hardware. You need a, a phone system that allows you to listen to all sides- Mm-hmm ... of the conversation. You've g- just gotta be able to do that. You gotta be able to do that. Now I'm gonna give another shout-out here as we work in our marketing. So a lot of times I hear shops talking about their marketing. "Well, my marketing's not working. I'm not... It's not working. It's not working." A lot of times it comes back to the phone call. Mm-hmm. How well is the phone call being handled or treated from an advisor? But speaking to the marketing part, we've got a shout-out here for the institute is holding a marketing intensive this October 26, 27, 28. Tanika, I just got off the phone with Brett Faidley. He is signed up. He is coming out for Mars Conference, so if you wanna get signed up as well, sister, we'd love to have you out here. Tonnika Haynes: I gotta get a real flashy jacket for that one. Jimmy Lea: Uh-huh. Tonnika Haynes: Pull out my Jimmy Lea: rhinestones. Right behind that Mars Conference. So if you got your smartphone there in front of you, grab out your smartphone, turn on your camera. There's the QR code right there. Oh, man. Flash the QR code and get registered. The, the, uh, the Mars Conference is going to be awesome. It is a conference where when you are done with the workshops, it's a three-day conference. When you're done with that three-day conference, you have 2027 mapped out, ready to go, and you know what you're gonna be doing month to month throughout that whole next year. It's super awesome. I, I love the Mars Conference. David Boyes: I do too. So Jimmy Lea: come- David Boyes: I was at the last one. Excited to be there. I'm, let me just say I was there as a participant at the last Mars Conference. Tonnika Haynes: Mm-hmm. David Boyes: And, uh, one, getting to, you know, to interact with so many, uh, friends across the industry was great, but also, uh, you know, I, I, I don't own a shop. I own a, uh, communication business. I took so much away from that that I immediately applied. I can speak from my own experience. Uh, and I know, uh, you know, many of the participants there that took those components right back to their shop and made immediate changes. So it is, uh, it's not just a, um, it's not just a workshop where you're gonna come away with a flashy workbook and put that in a dusty cabinet somewhere and never do anything with it. I promise you, you attend the Mars Conference, and, uh, you will come away energized and ready to make a real difference in your shop Jimmy Lea: Yep, for sure. For sure. Tonnika Haynes: All right. Like I s- I'm never gonna be at work if I keep coming, following you around, Jimmy. David Boyes: Just imagine your wardrobe, though. Tonnika Haynes: Oh, I know. It'd be so good. Jimmy Lea: It'd be so good. Tonnika Haynes: But no, we'll see. I, I'm thinking about that. I thought about what we talked about the other day, but we're not gonna get off subject 'cause I do that a lot. David Boyes: It can happen. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. David, what else? What else can we talk about with phones, phone systems, programs? Um, can we track our marketing using your phone system? David Boyes: Yeah. Uh, just on that very note, you know, the, uh, uh, we'll talk about this a little bit this year at Mars as well, but, you know, market tracking is important, right? We, we spend a lot of money, and understanding the performance, uh, is important. So with our phone system, you know, we can provide, uh, market tracking numbers if you have different campaigns, mailers, text messaging, website, uh, related, uh, leads that you're generating. Um, we can certainly provide unique numbers. The customer experience is the same, and the, um, you know, the shop experience is the same, except you have all of this additional data about, you know, how many calls were generated. So that's important to know, and, uh, it's also important to, uh, use that as a, you know, a good baseline of information about your capacity to manage phone calls in your shop. So when we look at some of the, uh, the other performance metrics, how long does it take us to answer the phone? Are we answering the phone, right? Jimmy Lea: Mm. David Boyes: In order to ask somebody for the appointment, we have to first answer the phone. Uh, and if you're spending this money on marketing campaigns, there are a variety of reasons, and I'll just tell you one example that I hear often from owners is, you know, they put out a marketing number and they, you know, advisors, uh, might believe that it's, you know, it's generating bad leads, something like that, so they won't answer that phone. Um, but we wanna, we wanna understand, uh, the behavior of what's going on. Is it something that we can control? Um, are, are we effective in the marketing campaign? What information do I have around that? And then additionally, uh, running that into the call analysis, uh, so that we understand are we, are we converting these, right? If we're generating the leads, are we actually generating appointments? And then, uh, from that point, if you know you have the appointment, you can measure your performance, uh, go forward. So there's a lot of data that we can capture, um, other than just sending in all of these phone calls to the main number. Jimmy Lea: I love it. David Boyes: Mm-hmm. Jimmy Lea: I love it. I love the, the phone is such a powerful tool. I love when we can multitask that tool and do multiple things with the, the same tool. Very cool. Very cool. But i- if there a- any questions, comments, concerns from our audience, we would love for you to type those in. If there's questions for David or questions for Tamika, go ahead and type those into the comments section. While they're doing that, I will say if you are trying to keep up with me, good luck. But you can find it on our website. The website page is, uh, wearetheinstitute.com/events. That's all of the events that are coming up here in the very near future where you will see the institute participating and locking arms with the industry to help elevate the industry. Our motto, our mantra is, better business, better life, better industry. We're gonna lock arms with you as a shop owner so that you have a better business. The net result of you having a better business is that you have a better life. Tonnika Haynes: Mm-hmm. Jimmy Lea: And not just you have a better life, your advisors have a better life, your technicians have a better life. Your, uh, your partners have a better life. Your spouse Your advisors' significant others, their spouses, uh, their, their technicians and their spouses, the, and their children. Everyone elevates, everyone breathes better, everyone sees a bluer sky and greener grass when we have a better business, a better life, and our commitment is that we will help this become a better industry. Looks like there's a couple of comments that did come through. Oh, no, that's Raleigh posting out the webpage for the events. Yeah. Uh, super awesome. Super awesome. Uh, last final thoughts, final ideas. David, we'll start with you. Tanika, then to you. Yeah. That we can help this industry grow. David Boyes: Tanika, thank you for joining today and, and sharing your experience. It's super valuable for, for me as a provider to our industry that, uh, we understand how we're driving impact. So thank you again for that. Thank you for your trust and support. For the, uh, the audience, uh, Call Inbound is our company, callinbound.com. Uh, we provide communication services, uh, call tracking information, uh, advisor call handling performance metrics, and AI call analysis. But above all, we're part of the industry, right? So, uh, I got my start with, uh, with the institute in a 20 group. Got, you know, very ingrained in the industry, uh, while I was building my company. And, um, you know, I'm proud to say that I'm part of the, uh, not just the automotive aftermarket, but the, the service repair industry. Thank you, Tonnika Haynes: gentlemen. I wanna make, make sure you know that I appreciate your company. Um, I don't know how many employees you have, but it seems like they're all just sitting in the same room waiting to help. I can send an email and I get a response so quickly, and it's always been consistent great service, so I do appreciate that. And, uh, anybody that's on the fence, whether you, you know, I'm like, "I don't wanna listen to phone calls, that's just another thing for me to need to..." Do it. Listen to the phone calls. Start with yourself. Start with yourself as the owner. I always say start, start with yourself. I always assume that I'm the problem, then I can work from there. Listen to your phone calls, and if you think you're good and then you listen to them, you realize how bad you are, think about how bad your team is if you're not coaching them. So get them in coaching call services or what- whatever. Listen to the phone calls. Get everything in order. And not only will you make better sales and better connections, more appointments, but I really truly believe that it could save you a lot of heartache. Yeah, they record bad calls, too. Bad calls from the other end that you're, you know, that you need, I hate to say for court, but anything. It's like, "Hey, sir, we've got that call recorded and that didn't go quite the way you're saying it's gonna go." So that's another part to it that could, that could be very important in your shop. We call that David Boyes: the replay booth. Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. Jimmy Lea: Yeah. Yeah. David Boyes: We'll take that to the replay booth. Tonnika Haynes: Yeah. Jimmy Lea: It, it, it's an important to CYA. Exactly. You gotta cover your own behind. Tonnika Haynes: There's a great... That's a great tool for that. Jimmy Lea: Yep. Yep. Yep, for sure. Well, with that, thank you very much. David, thank you for being here. Taneka, thank you very much for being here. Tonnika Haynes: Any Jimmy Lea: time. Look forward to seeing both of you very soon at our next conference, and to give you a big hug and say hello. Uh, bring your best jackets, David. Say Tonnika Haynes: less. Gotcha. Say less. Back in the David Boyes: studio. Jimmy Lea: Yes, yes. Very much looking forward to working with all of you in the very near future. And for everyone that is listening, thank you so much for joining us today as we talk about building a better business, a better life, and a better industry. My name is Jimmie Lee. I'm with the Institute for Automotive Business Excellence, and we're here to lock arms with you and make a difference. Click on it. Come find us. We're here to help. How can we help you? Let's make a difference. Talk to you soon.

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Downshift with TonnikaAugust 25 · 59 min

Are You Running Your Shop… Or Is It Running You? | Darin Johnson - Ep 37

You shouldn't have to play detective just to figure out what's happening in your own shop. 😂 If you're ready for all your shop's information in one place, check out Tekmetric HEREConsistency is key - heard that! But, consistency is HARD. That's why I gave up on trying and let the experts handle it. Detect Auto. Let them clean up your estimating process and raise your ARO - like they did for me! CLICK HERE TO BOOK A DEMORunning an auto repair shop is one thing—but what happens when the shop starts running you? In this episode, Tonnika Haynes sits down with Darin Johnson, a one-man shop owner from Great Bend, Kansas, who admits he's working seven days a week, struggles to tell customers no, and hasn't taken a real vacation since 2018. They get into the difficult transition from technician to business owner, why coaching and industry connections have changed Darin's approach, and how raising his labor rate didn't create the customer revolt he feared. Tonnika also gets fired up about boundaries, last-minute customers, “free” tire pressure checks, and why serving your community doesn't mean allowing customers to control your schedule. Darin is heading to ASTA with a mission: build his network, learn how to step away from the shop, find help, and finally create a business that gives him a life outside the bays.Timestamps:00:00 Cold open: “It’s gonna be on one more day”00:19 Downshift intro00:38 Darin still has a FLIP PHONE?!02:10 Meet Darin: Running a one-man repair shop in Kansas02:44 How he accidentally became a shop owner04:27 From hot rods to 25 years in automotive05:39 Does Darin really want to stay a one-man operation?07:06 Heading to ASTA for the first time07:40 Why Darin LEFT his first training event early08:39 Coaching struggles: Knowing what to do vs. actually doing it09:55 The real reason Darin is coming to ASTA10:16 Shop ownership can feel like you’re on an island13:08 Working seven days a week & being married to the shop14:20 The people-pleasing problem15:03 Customers asking about cars at dinner and the grocery store16:27 What happens when the shop becomes your only hobby?20:26 Feeling guilty for taking time away20:57 “Schedule your hats”—including downtime22:59 Darin’s five-year plan: Train someone to replace him23:38 His last REAL vacation was in 201824:34 Open-heart surgery changed how Darin viewed the business25:21 Becoming an owner instead of just a technician28:06 Why 15–20 cars are constantly sitting at the shop28:34 The work Darin has finally started saying NO to30:49 Bringing an accountability partner to training32:42 Why a few unhappy customers can ruin your mindset33:58 Should you just FIRE the worst 5% of your customers?38:02 Tonnika gives Darin his official ASTA assignment40:40 Finding your automotive family42:39 Why Tonnika recommends coaching43:57 Coaching’s impact on Darin’s mindset and mental health45:01 “I wish I would’ve done this 10 years ago”46:04 Why shops that don’t train get left behind46:58 Darin now has the highest labor rate in town47:34 Tonnika’s $12 lawnmower tire era 😂49:00 Learning how to say NO without losing customers49:12 Scheduling your different “hats” as an owner51:10 Customers don’t control your schedule51:44 “It’s been on for two weeks? It can wait another day.”53:05 Your six-month-old check engine light isn’t suddenly my emergency53:50 How “real quick” jobs steal HOURS from your day54:52 Why Tonnika refuses to just throw air in a tire55:32 “My air isn’t free!”56:23 The right way to say no: Give customers another option57:45 Darin’s ASTA challenge & what’s coming in Part 2

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